Flaws do not make you ugly; flaws make you human
Humans tend to point out other’s flaws and bad habits, however we do not take time to think about our own. I remember telling a friend of mine that this trip was going to be about some time with me, myself, and I. It might sound a little selfish; however what I meant was - time to get to know myself better. Barcelona has helped me understand how important it is to point out my own flaws and bad habits, which is allowing to accept others for who they are more and more because after all nobody is perfect. Here is a list of my flaws and bad habits:
1. I am stubborn - my mother always tells how stubborn I am, but since I am stubborn I always thought I was not stubborn (a little confusing but I know you get the point).
2. I overreact - I think this is one of the worse things about myself. I always jump to conclusions without taking a second to think first. Well my roommate told me most girls are like that, which makes me feel a little better.
3. I can`t focus on one thing- I enjoy being sociable and outgoing but sometimes I find myself involved in too many activities. It is not a bad thing at all - but sometimes I find myself not giving my all to one project because I am too excited to start the next one.
4. I speak my mind - I know being honest is not bad, however I have to work on how to express myself better. Some people are more vulnerable and sensitive than others and sometimes the receiver might misunderstand the message I am trying to send, which sometimes ends up on hurting their feelings.
5. I need start practicing what I preach - I can`t give others advices when I am not applying them to myself, Also I can`t pretend to be the example when I am not following my own words.
6. Victim role - I always say I dislike people that play the victim role, but lately I have been noticing how sometimes I can be such a complainer. Why complain about it when I might be able to change it? Sadly but truly I play the victim role. It makes feel like a hypocrite.
This is all I can point out as of right now; I know I have more. I am being a little hard with myself but it takes a lot of strength to accept our own flaws. Flaws do not make you ugly; flaws make you human. But we should always try to better ourselves by working on the traits we do not like about ourselves.
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